Save a boyfriend for a rainy day - and another, in case it doesn't rain.
I'm a Neurosurgeon by day, proud dad of three amazing kids two beautiful daughters and one awesome son by heart. I’ve dedicated my career to saving lives and my free time to building a meaningful one. Originally from your background if you want to add, I’ve called San Diego home for years and still can’t get enough of the beach sunsets, good tacos, and perfect weather. I’m a big pet lover—nothing beats coming home to wagging tails and happy faces both human and furry. I believe in balancing a demanding career with real connection and family time. Whether it’s coaching my kids’ sports, hiking with the dogs, or exploring new restaurants around San Diego, I try to make the most of life. Looking for someone kind, emotionally intelligent, and open to building something real. If you value honesty, laughter, and a man who knows how to show up for the people he cares about, let’s talk. looking for. Perhaps it could be you?
A heart of gold and a personality to match. What you see is what you get.
I like to flirt with my my chest or cleavage.

Lessons, Joys, and Surprises
Back in my twenties, I thought dating was simple. If I walked into a nightclub, I could've been content with the majority of women I met in one evening. Attraction was straightforward, expectations were light, and I didn't yet understand how much relationships evolve with age - both for women and for men. Fast forward to today, in my late 50s, with children, a long-term relationship behind me, and plenty of dating experiences under my belt, I've realized something powerful: dating women at different stages of life offers completely different dynamics, challenges, and joys.
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