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Otisv

I am a male, 41 years young, residing in United States, Iowa - Dubuque, and I'm looking for a female match on Flirthut.

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I am in search of...

When you hold me in your arms, are you the type of person that will make me feel safe and warm? Have you made it all the way to the end of my profile? Then what are you waiting for? Drop me a line and let's plan our next adventure!

  • Identifies as: male
  • Height: >6' to 6'2 (1.83m to 1.88m)
  • Body type: athletic
  • Marital Status: single
  • Looking for: prefer not to say
  • Hair colour: blonde
  • Hair length: short
  • Eyes: blue
  • Drinking habits: never
  • Smoking habits: brown
  • Has children: yes but they don't live with me
  • Joined Flirthut: Visible to upgraded members
  • Last online: Visible to upgraded members
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About me

If you kiss on the first date and it's not right, then there will be no second date. Sometimes it's better to hold out and not kiss for a long time. I am a strong believer in kissing being very intimate, and the minute you kiss, the floodgates open for everything else.

My flirt feature

I like to flirt with my my face.

Interests

Crypto / Investing Dressing Up / Role Play Football Gardening Golf Martial Arts Strip Poker Walking / Rambling

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