Save a boyfriend for a rainy day - and another, in case it doesn't rain.
Someone able to carry on a conversation whether the topic is silly or serious. Knowing enough about life so that you always have something to say is a definite bonus.
If you kiss on the first date and it's not right, then there will be no second date. Sometimes it's better to hold out and not kiss for a long time. I am a strong believer in kissing being very intimate, and the minute you kiss, the floodgates open for everything else.
I like to flirt with my my lips.
Lessons, Joys, and Surprises
Back in my twenties, I thought dating was simple. If I walked into a nightclub, I could've been content with the majority of women I met in one evening. Attraction was straightforward, expectations were light, and I didn't yet understand how much relationships evolve with age - both for women and for men. Fast forward to today, in my late 50s, with children, a long-term relationship behind me, and plenty of dating experiences under my belt, I've realized something powerful: dating women at different stages of life offers completely different dynamics, challenges, and joys.
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