You can never control who you fall in love with, even when you're in the most sad, confused time of your life. You don't fall in love with people because they're fun. It just happens.
Overall I'm looking to find someone to share experiences and similar values, goals, and morals. Someone that also sees relationships as what we can provide and improve each other on while still being ourselves rather than what we simply can get out of another person.
I am generally considered a layed person. Outwardly a bit goofy and friendly but with more sides for those that get close. Though generally reserved about personal things I am quite a passionate person about the things I truly care for. Not expecting much from a dating app and honestly would prefer to go things slow and naturally develop. I understand that I'm a nice person and that what I'd be looking for is quite rare and different than most.
I like to flirt with my my hair.

Red Flags, Ghosters & Why Flirthut Might Save Your Sanity
Let me get this out of the way: I'm a guy in his late 40s, freshly flung back into the dating scene after a long-term relationship. I'm not jaded, yet, but I've learned a few things. Mainly, that dating today feels like playing Minesweeper on hard mode… blindfolded. This post is written from my perspective as a heterosexual man dating women, but let's be real: emotional instability, ghosting, manipulation, and dating weirdos are equal-opportunity hazards. Anyone navigating online dating in the 2020s will probably find something painfully familiar here. Dating in your 20s was chaotic. Dating in your 30s was complicated. But dating in your 40s? That’s where things get… weird.
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