Relationships in general make people a bit nervous. It's about trust. Do I trust you enough to go there?
I don't know what I'm looking for but I will know when I've found it
You can never control who you fall in love with, even when you're in the most sad, confused time of your life. You don't fall in love with people because they're fun. It just happens.
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