I don't know the first real thing about the dating game. I don't know how to talk to a specific person and connect. I just think you have to go to person by person and do the best you can with people in general.
I'm not sure what I'm looking for. Perhaps it could be you?
People could rationally decide that prolonged relationships take up too much time and effort and that they'd much rather do other kinds of things. But most people are afraid of rejection.
Kaylas has not specified any interests yet. Why not get in touch with them to find out what interests they have?