I don't know the first real thing about the dating game. I don't know how to talk to a specific person and connect. I just think you have to go to person by person and do the best you can with people in general.
Someone who enjoys the outdoors, tries to eats healthy and likes to take a midnight stroll from time-to-time.
Good-looking individuals are treated better than homely ones in virtually every social situation, from dating to trial by jury.