Relationships in general make people a bit nervous. It's about trust. Do I trust you enough to go there?
An ambitious go-getter. I'm attracted to people who set big goals and put all their effort into pursuing them. Even if your life's dream is to become the world's greatest thumb-wrestler, I totally dig it.
Nothing defines humans better than their willingness to do irrational things in the pursuit of phenomenally unlikely payoffs. This is the principle behind lotteries, dating, and religion.
Harman has not specified any interests yet. Why not get in touch with them to find out what interests they have?