Regular average Joe, laid back, good natured, low keyed, not pushy, looking for something that is a bad habit, but do when it is right and timing works.
A opened minded guy not looking for a boyfriend, but just a good time now and then on the downlow side of things. Hush side.
Nothing defines humans better than their willingness to do irrational things in the pursuit of phenomenally unlikely payoffs. This is the principle behind lotteries, dating, and religion.