Dating is different when you get older. You're not as trusting, or as eager to get back out there and expose yourself to someone.
I think its fantastic if your idea of fun is cuddling up on the couch with a movie or just relaxing together. However, I am not in their market for a total couch potato. If there is zero activity in your life, we will probably not be the best match.
Dating now is a lot like going shopping when you don't have any money. Even if you find the right thing, you can't do anything about it.