Dating is different when you get older. You're not as trusting, or as eager to get back out there and expose yourself to someone.
I think its fantastic if your idea of fun is cuddling up on the couch with a movie or just relaxing together. However, I am not in the market for a total couch potato. If there is zero activity in your life, we will probably not be the best match.
Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction.