Dating is different when you get older. You're not as trusting, or as eager to get back out there and expose yourself to someone.
I am looking for someone that I can get lost in conversation with just as easily as we can share one of those moments of comfortable silence in each others arms. I love to laugh and joke around. My job is awesome, but I know when I come home that this is where my priorities and true happiness are.
Workshops and seminars are basically financial speed dating for clueless people.