If you kiss on the first date and it's not right, then there will be no second date. Sometimes it's better to hold out and not kiss for a long time. I am a strong believer in kissing being very intimate, and the minute you kiss, the floodgates open for everything else.
I don't know what I'm looking for but I will know when I've found it
Never assume that the guy understands that you and he have a relationship.