Relationships in general make people a bit nervous. It's about trust. Do I trust you enough to go there?
I think its fantastic if your idea of fun is cuddling up on the couch with a movie or just relaxing together. However, I am not in the market for a total couch potato. If there is zero activity in your life, we will probably not be the best match.
Watching your daughter being collected by her date feels like handing over a million dollar Stradivarius to a gorilla.