Dating is different when you get older. You're not as trusting, or as eager to get back out there and expose yourself to someone.
If you like to have fun and consider yourself to be spontaneous yet are also responsible and mature, things are off to a great start.
You can never control who you fall in love with, even when you're in the most sad, confused time of your life. You don't fall in love with people because they're fun. It just happens.
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