I don't know the first real thing about the dating game. I don't know how to talk to a specific person and connect. I just think you have to go to person by person and do the best you can with people in general.
I don't know what I'm looking for but I will know when I've found it
Never assume that the guy understands that you and he have a relationship.
TomMartins1234 has not specified any interests yet. Why not get in touch with them to find out what interests they have?