Dating is different when you get older. You're not as trusting, or as eager to get back out there and expose yourself to someone.
I don't know what I'm looking for but I will know when I've found it
Nothing defines humans better than their willingness to do irrational things in the pursuit of phenomenally unlikely payoffs. This is the principle behind lotteries, dating, and religion.
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