Dating is different when you get older. You're not as trusting, or as eager to get back out there and expose yourself to someone.
I think its fantastic if your idea of fun is cuddling up on the couch with a movie or just relaxing together. However, I am not in the market for a total couch potato. If there is zero activity in your life, we will probably not be the best match.
Smart women love smart men more than smart men love smart women.