If you kiss on the first date and it's not right, then there will be no second date. Sometimes it's better to hold out and not kiss for a long time. I am a strong believer in kissing being very intimate, and the minute you kiss, the floodgates open for everything else.
You should message me if you are Smart, S*xy, Sophisticated, Sassy and Spontaneous.
However successful you are, there is no substitute for a close relationship. We all need them.