That one makes me cringe. I believe it is a quest of the ego to attempt and define oneself. So, let me just say that I have had many experiences, and I am the strongest person that I know , at least most of the time. I am witty, attractive, and I am not a bad cook either.
Intelligent, attractive, a few extra pounds, but not necessary. She has to have experience with life, and I would imagine she would have an appreciation for nature, real food, and the importance of intimacy. Sound about right?
However successful you are, there is no substitute for a close relationship. We all need them.