I'm a retired construction electrician but still working part time, I've put on a few pounds since retirement 8 years ago but I was going to the gym a few days a week before they shut down, I'm a bit of a homebody in a relationship I enjoy cooking, grilling and making my lady feel appreciated. I'm loyal, protective, slow to anger, and understanding. Dating is different when you get older. You're not as trusting, or as eager to get back out there and expose yourself to someone.
A lady that is a touch wild at times but ready to settle down to one man you enjoy going to a supper club a bottle of wine or drink, maybe an evening at a cocktail lounge going to see a movie, road trips, nice hotel or motel especially close to the ocean if you know what you want, and aren't afraid of having a ton of fun while going after it, send me a message and let's chat.
Never assume that the guy understands that you and he have a relationship.