Dating is different when you get older. You're not as trusting, or as eager to get back out there and expose yourself to someone.
An ambitious go-getter. I'm attracted to people who set big goals and put all their effort into pursuing them. Even if your life's dream is to become the world's greatest thumb-wrestler, I totally dig it.
Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.