Anything in life worth doing is worth overdoing, moderation is for the weak minded. Should probably mention that im 6ft-slim and no I will not follow your snapchat crap to check out your boobs! If you like anime and 420 thats a ++
Someone able to carry on a conversation whether the topic is silly or serious. Knowing enough about life so that you always have something to say is a definite bonus.
However successful you are, there is no substitute for a close relationship. We all need them.