Dating is different when you get older. You're not as trusting, or as eager to get back out there and expose yourself to someone.
If you can't go 5 minutes without checking Facebook on your phone, we're probably not a good match. However, if you enjoy having thought-provoking conversation and aren't afraid of the occasional spirited debate, give me a shout!
Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.