Relationships in general make people a bit nervous. It's about trust. Do I trust you enough to go there?
I am just hoping to meet someone who can discuss the world around them, is looking for more than just a date, and will cuddle on the couch and laugh with me. Will you be my partner in crime? If the answer is yes then message me and let's get lost together.
Never assume that the guy understands that you and he have a relationship.
Cobby has not specified any interests yet. Why not get in touch with them to find out what interests they have?