I don't know the first real thing about the dating game. I don't know how to talk to a specific person and connect. I just think you have to go to person by person and do the best you can with people in general.
If you like to have fun and consider yourself to be spontaneous we might have something in common are you also responsible and mature, things are off to a good start.
Some women flirt more with what they say, and some with what they do.