I don't know the first real thing about the dating game. I don't know how to talk to a specific person and connect. I just think you have to go to person by person and do the best you can with people in general.
If you like to have fun and consider yourself to be spontaneous yet are also responsible and mature, things are off to a great start.
You can never control who you fall in love with, even when you're in the most sad, confused time of your life. You don't fall in love with people because they're fun. It just happens.
Ronlove has not specified any interests yet. Why not get in touch with them to find out what interests they have?