I'm a healthy older fellow, college educated BSME, I played on a Phila. City Football Championship team in high school and 2 years while at UPENN. While in the Navy four years, served aboard a light guided missle cruiser & ended aboard an aircraft carrier. Originally raised outside of Phila., PA, Catholic schooling thru 12 grade. Yes! I survived - lol. I have 3 adult successful children who also live in the San Diego, CA area. They have careers and strong relationships. I manage an internet sales business which offers industrial equipment.
If you like to have fun and consider yourself to be spontaneous yet are also responsible and mature, things are off to a great start Because of my fetish, I relate to women who are some what submissive. If you want to wear the pants in our relationship, keep on moving! It would be fantastic when I meet a beautiful younger women who shares in my fetish.
You can never control who you fall in love with, even when you're in the most sad, confused time of your life. You don't fall in love with people because they're fun. It just happens.