I don't know the first real thing about the dating game. I don't know how to talk to a specific person and connect. I just think you have to go to person by person and do the best you can with people in general.
You should message me if you are Smart, S*xy, Sophisticated, Sassy and Spontaneous. and a really good flirter
Practically all the relationships I know are based on a foundation of lies and mutually accepted delusion.