If you kiss on the first date and it's not right, then there will be no second date. Sometimes it's better to hold out and not kiss for a long time. I am a strong believer in kissing being very intimate, and the minute you kiss, the floodgates open for everything else.
I'm not sure what I'm looking for. Perhaps it could be you?
Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.