I like to focus my energy on collecting experiences as opposed to things and would much rather spend my money on a trip to a foreign country than on a fancy new car
I think its fantastic if your idea of fun is cuddling up on the couch with a movie or just relaxing together. However, I am not in the market for a total couch potato. If there is zero activity in your life, we will probably not be the best match.
Dating now is a lot like going shopping when you don't have any money. Even if you find the right thing, you can't do anything about it.