Relationships in general make people a bit nervous. It's about trust. Do I trust you enough to go there? I want someone to spend time making eachother feel skin to skin great.
I think its fantastic if your idea of fun is cuddling up on the couch with a movie or just relaxing together. However, I am not in the market for a total couch potato. If there is zero activity in your life, we will probably not be the best match. Low s*x in my current life, would like more, someone who enjoys s*x and being naked.
We're born alone, we live alone, we die alone. Only through our love and friendship can we create the illusion for the moment that we're not alone.