Dating is different when you get older. You're not as trusting, or as eager to get back out there and expose yourself to someone.
I'm not sure what I'm looking for. Perhaps it could be you?
Dating now is a lot like going shopping when you don't have any money. Even if you find the right thing, you can't do anything about it.
Bofisher has not specified any interests yet. Why not get in touch with them to find out what interests they have?