Relationships in general make people a bit nervous. It's about trust. Do I trust you enough to go there?
I don't know what I'm looking for but I will know when I've found it
Nothing defines humans better than their willingness to do irrational things in the pursuit of phenomenally unlikely payoffs. This is the principle behind lotteries, dating, and religion.
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