I don't know the first real thing about the dating game. I don't know how to talk to a specific person and connect. I just think you have to go to person by person and do the best you can with people in general.
I am in search of someone that is to my level and not expecting more than should be from a partner. I am a friendly, loyal and honest woman. I would really like to have a good relationship with that special someone. I don't believe the best match is a person with all the same feelings and values, but someone who is able to express their thoughts and listen to those of their partner.
I don't know any of us who are in relationships that are totally honest - it doesn't exist.