Dating is different when you get older. You're not as trusting, or as eager to get back out there and expose yourself to someone.
If you know what you want, and aren't afraid of having a ton of fun while going after it, send me a message and let's chat.
Never assume that the guy understands that you and he have a relationship.
Attracted has not specified any interests yet. Why not get in touch with them to find out what interests they have?