I don't know the first real thing about the dating game. I don't know how to talk to a specific person and connect. I just think you have to go to person by person and do the best you can with people in general.
If you can't go 5 minutes without checking Facebook on your phone, we're probably not a good match. However, if you enjoy having thought-provoking conversation and aren't afraid of the occasional spirited debate, give me a shout!
There's only two people in your life you should lie to... the police and your girlfriend.
Jlaw8257 has not specified any interests yet. Why not get in touch with them to find out what interests they have?