Dating is different when you get older. You're not as trusting, or as eager to get back out there and expose yourself to someone.
I think its fantastic if your idea of fun is cuddling up on the couch with a movie or just relaxing together. However, I am not in the market for a total couch potato. If there is zero activity in your life, we will probably not be the best match.
There's only two people in your life you should lie to... the police and your girlfriend.
Aurelia1 has not specified any interests yet. Why not get in touch with them to find out what interests they have?