If you kiss on the first date and it's not right, then there will be no second date. Sometimes it's better to hold out and not kiss for a long time. I am a strong believer in kissing being very intimate, and the minute you kiss, the floodgates open for everything else.
I think its fantastic if your idea of fun is cuddling up on the couch with a movie or just relaxing together. However, I am not in the market for a total couch potato. If there is zero activity in your life, we will probably not be the best match.
Dating is just awkward moments and one person wants more than the other. It's just that constant strangeness. I think it's a very real thing.
Gilchrist has not specified any interests yet. Why not get in touch with them to find out what interests they have?