I don't understand the whole dating thing. I know right off the bat if I'm interested in someone, and I don't want them to waste their money on me and take me out to eat if I know I'm not interested in that person.
You should message me if you are Smart, Sexy, Sophisticated, Sassy and Spontaneous.
Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.