With thousands of members signing up each week on Flirthut, your match might just be a click away. Signing up with us is completely free. Unlike a lot of other free dating sites, we don't buy our member lists or use details we've got from other sites. All our members have signed up exclusively to use our free service so we are unique. Keeping your registration with us costs you nothing and you have nothing to lose other than the prospect of meeting your match online if you're not a member.
We don't believe you should spend hours filling out forms to find your dating match online. What can the results of a form tell you that you can't already judge for yourself? Meeting someone online needs a good dating site like Flirthut where there are other likeminded individuals. The decision making and the communication is up to you. You don't need to answer lots questions - save these for when you meet face to face. Online dating isn't a mortgage application like some other sites make it out to be. Flirthut is back to basics. Good honest simple dating with minimal complications. If someone interests you and you want to know more about them, then all you need to do is ask! And Flirthut has a few clever systems in place to ensure you don't get harassed by people who don't follow the online dating etiquette.
When you sign up with Flirthut, not only do you get to search for free and message other members for free, you can tell us how often or not you would like to get email notifications from us. Unlike most other dating sites, we try not to bombard you with emails each time someone looks at your profile or sends you a message. Instead, you can choose to have a daily or weekly list of activity associated with your account emailed to you. Or if you want, you can choose not to have any email notifications at all. It's your dating experience and you should be allowed to do it the way you want. We also don't have any restrictions on message content other than an offensive word filter. If you want to exchange phone numbers or email addresses with someone else, then you can. That's what a dating site is all about - meeting someone!
You're single and looking to find someone for a relationship - What are you waiting for? Join flirthut today and search for people in your area for free. Signing up is quick and easy, needing just one photo of yourself. We won't spring any charges on you or threaten to cancel your subscription because our dating site is a complete free site. That means any premium services we offer are in addition to the normal free service. And by normal free service, we mean free to search our members by distance and free to message them (subject to a ten message limitation per day). We don't put any restrictions on the messages you send to other members other than filtering out offensive language. After all, a dating site is designed to allow people to meet each other so if you want to exchange email addresses or phone numbers, that's fine with us. That's why we're here.
If you're a single parent, having to juggle time with your children and making time to meet someone for a relationship can be difficult. Free dating sites like Flirthut can help make things a little easier for you by giving you an opportunity to meet someone online without having to pay for subscriptions or create complex accounts. We're back to basics. And because we're simple, you'll have more time to search around and less time worrying about what information you've given. It may surprise you to know that a lot of our members are single parents looking for a relationship. Online dating is a great way to meet other single parents or other single people who are looking for a relationship with someone like you. And you don't have to pay anything. So what have you got to lose?
A good photo on your dating profile can make a big difference to the responses you get and the type of person that responds to you. Taking the time to select a good picture of yourself is very important. Before photos appear on Flirthut, they are checked to ensure they meet our guidelines, so they don't offend other users. Photos which do not, are rejected. So what is a good photo? Ideally, it will show your face in full - without sunglasses, hats or any other obstructions in a nice surrounding and preferably against a light background. You should be well groomed and looking your best. You wouldn't go out expecting to meet someone looking like you've made no effort whatsoever would you?
Take a look at our forum for some more hints and advice on what a good online dating profile photo should be along with other topics of discussion.
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I was asked to write this blog because of my experiences online. I've slept with over a thousand men that I met online and I've managed to do this since I was a teen. Most of the men I've slept with I met on dating sites, some through social media and the rest just replying to posts in various health and relationship forums. Some people might call me a slut or an easy lay, but the truth is, I just enjoy the thrill of meeting someone and the closeness of a brief but intense intimate relationship. I think it's easy to sleep with a guy when you're a woman. Guys are so easily manipulated online. Most of them crave the attention. They're easy prey. Pretty much every single guy I've ever spoken to online has ended up sleeping with me because I knew I could wrap them around my little finger. There are plenty of guys who do this all the time so why shouldn't a woman? I get asked if I want to settle down all the time and of course I do but it would take a very particular person for me to commit to. Men are easy to find online and even easier to sleep with. That put's me off having a serious relationship with any of them. I know what most of them are looking for. Perhaps shockingly to some, a lot of the guys I've slept with weren’t even single.
I grew up very isolated socially. My parents lived on a farm and decided it was easier to home school me. I had a very limited set of friends and hated not being able to do what all the other kids did. When I was 14, I lost my virginity to a traveling salesman. I was at home alone when it happened. I wasn't raped or taken advantage of. I wanted it to happen. I was a curious teenager. Of the few friends that I had at the time, they were appalled by what I did, particularly as we lived in a very catholic community. I don't regret it at all though. I enjoyed it and I'm proud of what I did.By the time I was 17, I had slept with a handful of men, one of whom was my uncle.
I discovered that I enjoyed sex a lot and had a strong desire for it. I found men very interesting physically and started learning how easy it was to get what I wanted from them. There were very few men in my life at the time that I had any real respect and regard for. I guess that fueled what would lead to be my life not long after. My father worked a lot but always found time for me. He was one of the few men I respected and to this day, I still feel guilty hiding my secret life from him. Until he passed away, he had no idea what I was doing and that I'd slept with one of his brothers. This is probably one part of my life that I'm truly shameful for today. Not because of what I did, but because I kept something from my father who thought so highly of me.
The internet was in its infancy at the time and it took several years before my parents were able to access it from the farm. I would spend most of my time in internet cafes in town discovering what it had to offer and of course, I came across the first online dating sites. It wasn't long before I was meeting men and getting them to travel hundreds of miles to meet me. It was just so easy. All I had to do was put a few vaguely risqué pictures of myself on a profile and I would get inundated with messages. The hardest part was filtering through them all given that I had limited time at each café session.
I had some good experiences and some very bad ones. I was physically abused on more than one occasion. Some people might say I was raped but I was looking for sex so I don't think I was. Some men would try and torture me for their own sexual gratification without asking me if it was acceptable to do so. Other men would sleep with me and then verbally abuse me. I've been spat on, punched in the face and had a knife at my throat but that never put me off. I eventually discovered an art to meeting the right people and for many years now I haven’t had any bad experiences like those.
When I was 28, I left home to move to pursue a job on Long Island and have been here ever since. I have a great circle a friends, a great apartment and I love my life. Most of my friends are monogamous and married but despite my unorthodox lifestyle, they’re always there for me. Today, there are so many compatible men online that I'm finding it difficult to keep up with them. I can only manage seeing a few each week at best. I'd like to see more but realistically, I don't have the time or money to do so. In an ideal world, I'd love to be sleeping with a different guy each night. I just love the attention and I love sex. My biggest fear are STD’s. So far I've been very lucky. The worst I've ever had is Chlamydia on a couple of occasions but I'm not naïve. People often tell me that my lifestyle puts me at risk but I've known people who have only had a few sexual partners in their time and come out a lot worse.
I'm now 42, never married and never had kids. I chose this life and I’m happy with it. I get judged very often by people who don't know me and that infuriates me. What's right for one person doesn't have to be right for another. I think a lot of people that don't like what I do are frustrated and jealous that I can get away with it. That I can explore and appreciate my sexual needs. We all make choices in life. Some of us make choices that we are happy with and the rest make choices that others are happy with.