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With thousands of members signing up each week on Flirthut, your match might just be a click away. Signing up with us is completely free. Unlike a lot of other free dating sites, we don't buy our member lists or use details we've got from other sites. All our members have signed up exclusively to use our free service so we are unique. Keeping your registration with us costs you nothing and you have nothing to lose other than the prospect of meeting your match online if you're not a member.

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We don't believe you should spend hours filling out forms to find your dating match online. What can the results of a form tell you that you can't already judge for yourself? Meeting someone online needs a good dating site like Flirthut where there are other likeminded individuals. The decision making and the communication is up to you. You don't need to answer lots questions - save these for when you meet face to face. Online dating isn't a mortgage application like some other sites make it out to be. Flirthut is back to basics. Good honest simple dating with minimal complications. If someone interests you and you want to know more about them, then all you need to do is ask! And Flirthut has a few clever systems in place to ensure you don't get harassed by people who don't follow the online dating etiquette.

Control how you often we message you

When you sign up with Flirthut, not only do you get to search for free and message other members for free, you can tell us how often or not you would like to get email notifications from us. Unlike most other dating sites, we try not to bombard you with emails each time someone looks at your profile or sends you a message. Instead, you can choose to have a daily or weekly list of activity associated with your account emailed to you. Or if you want, you can choose not to have any email notifications at all. It's your dating experience and you should be allowed to do it the way you want. We also don't have any restrictions on message content other than an offensive word filter. If you want to exchange phone numbers or email addresses with someone else, then you can. That's what a dating site is all about - meeting someone!

Single and looking to mingle

You're single and looking to find someone for a relationship - What are you waiting for? Join flirthut today and search for people in your area for free. Signing up is quick and easy, needing just one photo of yourself. We won't spring any charges on you or threaten to cancel your subscription because our dating site is a complete free site. That means any premium services we offer are in addition to the normal free service. And by normal free service, we mean free to search our members by distance and free to message them (subject to a ten message limitation per day). We don't put any restrictions on the messages you send to other members other than filtering out offensive language. After all, a dating site is designed to allow people to meet each other so if you want to exchange email addresses or phone numbers, that's fine with us. That's why we're here.

Single parent dating online

If you're a single parent, having to juggle time with your children and making time to meet someone for a relationship can be difficult. Free dating sites like Flirthut can help make things a little easier for you by giving you an opportunity to meet someone online without having to pay for subscriptions or create complex accounts. We're back to basics. And because we're simple, you'll have more time to search around and less time worrying about what information you've given. It may surprise you to know that a lot of our members are single parents looking for a relationship. Online dating is a great way to meet other single parents or other single people who are looking for a relationship with someone like you. And you don't have to pay anything. So what have you got to lose?

A good photo for your profile

A good photo on your dating profile can make a big difference to the responses you get and the type of person that responds to you. Taking the time to select a good picture of yourself is very important. Before photos appear on Flirthut, they are checked to ensure they meet our guidelines, so they don't offend other users. Photos which do not, are rejected. So what is a good photo? Ideally, it will show your face in full - without sunglasses, hats or any other obstructions in a nice surrounding and preferably against a light background. You should be well groomed and looking your best. You wouldn't go out expecting to meet someone looking like you've made no effort whatsoever would you?

Take a look at our forum for some more hints and advice on what a good online dating profile photo should be along with other topics of discussion.

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A deeper look at the fear of intimacy and how to overcome it

Don't suffer in silence

Many people are longing for real commitment, but don't want to risk being rejected over and over again. Even in a relationship, they start panicking when their partner talks about the future.

Perhaps you're one of these people experiencing fear of intimacy. Although it is perfectly normal to be afraid of opening up and being vulnerable, it can get in the way of your relationships over time.

To overcome this problem, you must dig deep to understand why you feel what you are feeling. This article aims to help you reflect on your past human bonds and how you can practice allowing greater vulnerability for the sake of your present and future ones.

Fear of intimacy as a defense mechanism

People who suffer from fear of intimacy often long for closeness, but push people away when they're getting too close for comfort. This can stem from several different causes, including bad childhood experiences, trauma, abuse, and failed romances.

Perhaps a bad break-up made you vow never to open your heart ever again. You may find yourself shutting other people out by steering clear of dates and keeping everyone at bay to prevent another painful heartbreak. Some people have an avoidant attachment style, which means that their fear of intimacy is deeply wired into their brains from their childhood. These people crave real connections but feel an uncontrollable urge to distance themselves when things are getting too serious.

More often than not, this debilitating fear starts inside the mind and builds a calloused barrier around the heart. It's our way of protecting ourselves - a mode of survival. Just as it took your brain years to build this wall of defense mechanism, overcoming fear of intimacy takes a lot of time and patience. Consider these heart-opening tips to start your process:

Face your past to heal your present

Most people who experience the fear of intimacy often prefer the past to remain buried. Opening up old wounds could trigger a well of emotions, which requires one to be more vulnerable. However, to heal your present and secure your future, you need to look at your past.

Acknowledge the hurt you experienced as a child, perhaps from a parent or another authority figure. Now is the time to deal with the pain so you can truly let go. Sometimes, you need to confront the ghosts of your past so you can start mending your present relationships.

Don't sweat the small stuff

When you have a fear of intimacy, it's easy to dwell on your partner's flaws, no matter how tiny they may be. You may be dating a close-to-perfect person, but be bothered by the awkward way he or she holds a steak knife. You suddenly feel a hyper-focused awareness because your brain is telling you to run and avoid an intimate human bond.

When you find yourself starting to nitpick your partner's qualities, take a breath and stop. Remind yourself that it's just a primitive part of your brain trying to protect you. Once you realize this, you can start to look at positive traits instead.

Lean into the fear

Part of being self-aware means embracing your fear and leaning into it instead of rejecting it. If you find yourself pulling away after an intimate moment with your partner, try to lean into the discomfort. Stay close and connected for as long as you can. This is a great exercise to overcome your fears and accepting that your childhood survival strategy is no longer needed in your adult relationships.

Don't let your fears prevent you from meeting the one. When you start opening up, life can amaze you with beautiful surprises!

If you're looking for an absolutely free adult dating site, check out Flirthut, which is a free online dating site. With our users growing, you can find the love and intimacy you are looking for in no time!

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