With thousands of members signing up each week on Flirthut, your match might just be a click away. Signing up with us is completely free. Unlike a lot of other free dating sites, we don't buy our member lists or use details we've got from other sites. All our members have signed up exclusively to use our free service so we are unique. Keeping your registration with us costs you nothing and you have nothing to lose other than the prospect of meeting your match online if you're not a member.
We don't believe you should spend hours filling out forms to find your dating match online. What can the results of a form tell you that you can't already judge for yourself? Meeting someone online needs a good dating site like Flirthut where there are other likeminded individuals. The decision making and the communication is up to you. You don't need to answer lots questions - save these for when you meet face to face. Online dating isn't a mortgage application like some other sites make it out to be. Flirthut is back to basics. Good honest simple dating with minimal complications. If someone interests you and you want to know more about them, then all you need to do is ask! And Flirthut has a few clever systems in place to ensure you don't get harassed by people who don't follow the online dating etiquette.
When you sign up with Flirthut, not only do you get to search for free and message other members for free, you can tell us how often or not you would like to get email notifications from us. Unlike most other dating sites, we try not to bombard you with emails each time someone looks at your profile or sends you a message. Instead, you can choose to have a daily or weekly list of activity associated with your account emailed to you. Or if you want, you can choose not to have any email notifications at all. It's your dating experience and you should be allowed to do it the way you want. We also don't have any restrictions on message content other than an offensive word filter. If you want to exchange phone numbers or email addresses with someone else, then you can. That's what a dating site is all about - meeting someone!
You're single and looking to find someone for a relationship - What are you waiting for? Join flirthut today and search for people in your area for free. Signing up is quick and easy, needing just one photo of yourself. We won't spring any charges on you or threaten to cancel your subscription because our dating site is a complete free site. That means any premium services we offer are in addition to the normal free service. And by normal free service, we mean free to search our members by distance and free to message them (subject to a ten message limitation per day). We don't put any restrictions on the messages you send to other members other than filtering out offensive language. After all, a dating site is designed to allow people to meet each other so if you want to exchange email addresses or phone numbers, that's fine with us. That's why we're here.
If you're a single parent, having to juggle time with your children and making time to meet someone for a relationship can be difficult. Free dating sites like Flirthut can help make things a little easier for you by giving you an opportunity to meet someone online without having to pay for subscriptions or create complex accounts. We're back to basics. And because we're simple, you'll have more time to search around and less time worrying about what information you've given. It may surprise you to know that a lot of our members are single parents looking for a relationship. Online dating is a great way to meet other single parents or other single people who are looking for a relationship with someone like you. And you don't have to pay anything. So what have you got to lose?
A good photo on your dating profile can make a big difference to the responses you get and the type of person that responds to you. Taking the time to select a good picture of yourself is very important. Before photos appear on Flirthut, they are checked to ensure they meet our guidelines, so they don't offend other users. Photos which do not, are rejected. So what is a good photo? Ideally, it will show your face in full - without sunglasses, hats or any other obstructions in a nice surrounding and preferably against a light background. You should be well groomed and looking your best. You wouldn't go out expecting to meet someone looking like you've made no effort whatsoever would you?
Take a look at our forum for some more hints and advice on what a good online dating profile photo should be along with other topics of discussion.
Something of interest?...
We don't often hear from members who have a shocking story to share and we thought we'd share one in particular as not only is it shocking, it's also quite an achievement.
A female Flirthut member, who wishes to remain anonymous - and for the purposes of this blog we're calling Sarah, claims to have slept with three different men she dated - all in one day. Although we can't substantiate this claim, with her permission, we inspected the messages she'd sent through her account and can indeed confirm she did arrange to meet three guys all in the same day. We also tried to get in touch with the three men she claims to have slept with but only one agreed to comment, and he confirmed that Sarah did spend a portion of the day with him at his residence.
"It wasn't easy. I didn't think I could do it but it turns out I could."
Sarah surprised us when she got in touch to ask us if it was 'normal dating practice' to sleep with other members on a first date. Amazingly, what Sarah managed to achieve was far from normal for her considering she had been in a long term relationship for almost 16 years before she signed up on several dating sites.
The whole point of online dating is to meet someone, so in a way, Sarah did exceptionally well.
"I'd signed up on Tinder, Zoosk and Flirthut in the hope that I'd meet someone special after my separation two years ago. I'd never tried online dating before."
Sarah had been messaging about five guys on Flirthut, all the in the same area, when one of them suggested that they meet up for a coffee.
"He was very cute, very sincere and when he asked to meet me, I jumped at the chance."
A couple of days later, another guy she was chatting to online asked to meet her too.
"I have to be honest, I don't have that much time to date people so I thought if I could meet a few dates all in one day, it'd save some time."
Thinking practically, Sarah arranged to meet her first date for lunch and her second date later that afternoon to give her the evening free with her friends. But, not long after she'd sealed the deal with her second date, a third guy in the same area also suggested meeting up for a drink.
"I was shocked. I've heard the expression, everything comes in threes, but I didn't think it applied to online dating."
Already booked for most of the day, Sarah had to make a decision and having a limited window for dating, she didn't want to pass down any opportunities so she booked Mr Third in for the evening.
"I went out that day to meet my first date with no expectations other than to get to know them. I hadn't dated anyone for a very long time and had no idea what to expect on a date with someone I'd met off a dating site. When I met my first date, I was instantly attracted to him and there wasn't much he could do to put me off."
Sarah had lunch with her first date, a glass of wine which swiftly turned into two and within a couple of hours, she was in the back of a taxi 'snogging' en route to his flat. The rest is history.
"I knew that I had another date organised at 4pm so I didn't have a lot of time to get changed. I freshened myself up quickly and headed straight over to meet my second date."
Amazingly, date number two turned out to be an even bigger winner for Sarah. He was much nicer than she expected and 'very sweet'. Apparently irresistible. So when he asked Sarah to have dinner with him at his place, she thought it would be a better idea than going on date number three later. She accepted, and they ended up having an early dinner at his place, minus the en route 'snogging' in the taxi. It was only after dinner that she ended up in bed with him.
"I'd had a couple more glasses of wine and I was just very relaxed. I thought to myself, why not?!".
Expecting to cancel her third date of the day, Mr Second transformed himself from being 'very sweet' into extremely 'sour' after they'd slept together and practically through her out of his apartment.
"I was so shocked. I was practically in my underwear when he asked me to leave. He got what he wanted and had no more use for me. At least he showed his true colours early."
Shocked and a bit deflated, Sarah went home to get showered and call it a day until Mr Third called her to confirm their evening date.
"He sounded very keen and genuine on the phone and I felt bad having to cancel so I went ahead with the date anyway, despite the events of the day."
At around 10pm, Sarah met Mr Third, keeping off the alcohol. Not surprisingly, given the history of the day, they hit if off. By midnight, she's back at his.
"I've never done anything like this before. Before the events of that evening, I'd only ever slept with two guys all my life so you can imagine how shocked I was by what had happened. It was exciting though and I don't regret it."
Sarah has been dating Mr Third now for a couple of months and is convinced they're soul mates. It's not uncommon for men and women to be more exploratory when they have come out of a long term relationship, particularly if they have only had a few intimate partners in their life. We're seeing a growing trend of online daters sleeping with their dates the first time they meet them. More women are becoming open to the idea of intimacy on a first date but we wouldn't recommend it as statistics show relationships that form that way are more likely to fail quickly. Stronger relationships are formed when the intimacy takes places after several dates. Don't rush it - it's usually worth waiting for.
If you're a Flirthut member and have a similar story to share with us, please get in touch – we'd love to hear from you.