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With thousands of members signing up each week on Flirthut, your match might just be a click away. Signing up with us is completely free. Unlike a lot of other free dating sites, we don't buy our member lists or use details we've got from other sites. All our members have signed up exclusively to use our free service so we are unique. Keeping your registration with us costs you nothing and you have nothing to lose other than the prospect of meeting your match online if you're not a member.

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We don't believe you should spend hours filling out forms to find your dating match online. What can the results of a form tell you that you can't already judge for yourself? Meeting someone online needs a good dating site like Flirthut where there are other likeminded individuals. The decision making and the communication is up to you. You don't need to answer lots questions - save these for when you meet face to face. Online dating isn't a mortgage application like some other sites make it out to be. Flirthut is back to basics. Good honest simple dating with minimal complications. If someone interests you and you want to know more about them, then all you need to do is ask! And Flirthut has a few clever systems in place to ensure you don't get harassed by people who don't follow the online dating etiquette.

Control how you often we message you

When you sign up with Flirthut, not only do you get to search for free and message other members for free, you can tell us how often or not you would like to get email notifications from us. Unlike most other dating sites, we try not to bombard you with emails each time someone looks at your profile or sends you a message. Instead, you can choose to have a daily or weekly list of activity associated with your account emailed to you. Or if you want, you can choose not to have any email notifications at all. It's your dating experience and you should be allowed to do it the way you want. We also don't have any restrictions on message content other than an offensive word filter. If you want to exchange phone numbers or email addresses with someone else, then you can. That's what a dating site is all about - meeting someone!

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You're single and looking to find someone for a relationship - What are you waiting for? Join flirthut today and search for people in your area for free. Signing up is quick and easy, needing just one photo of yourself. We won't spring any charges on you or threaten to cancel your subscription because our dating site is a complete free site. That means any premium services we offer are in addition to the normal free service. And by normal free service, we mean free to search our members by distance and free to message them (subject to a ten message limitation per day). We don't put any restrictions on the messages you send to other members other than filtering out offensive language. After all, a dating site is designed to allow people to meet each other so if you want to exchange email addresses or phone numbers, that's fine with us. That's why we're here.

Single parent dating online

If you're a single parent, having to juggle time with your children and making time to meet someone for a relationship can be difficult. Free dating sites like Flirthut can help make things a little easier for you by giving you an opportunity to meet someone online without having to pay for subscriptions or create complex accounts. We're back to basics. And because we're simple, you'll have more time to search around and less time worrying about what information you've given. It may surprise you to know that a lot of our members are single parents looking for a relationship. Online dating is a great way to meet other single parents or other single people who are looking for a relationship with someone like you. And you don't have to pay anything. So what have you got to lose?

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A good photo for your profile

A good photo on your dating profile can make a big difference to the responses you get and the type of person that responds to you. Taking the time to select a good picture of yourself is very important. Before photos appear on Flirthut, they are checked to ensure they meet our guidelines, so they don't offend other users. Photos which do not, are rejected. So what is a good photo? Ideally, it will show your face in full - without sunglasses, hats or any other obstructions in a nice surrounding and preferably against a light background. You should be well groomed and looking your best. You wouldn't go out expecting to meet someone looking like you've made no effort whatsoever would you?

Take a look at our forum for some more hints and advice on what a good online dating profile photo should be along with other topics of discussion.

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Would you know if you were dating a narcissist?

Is that really that bad?

Narcissists love themselves. They have an inflated sense of their own importance. They crave attention and admiration and have little if no empathy for others. But they need to ensure that the attention they get from others is positive and serves only to benefit them. In other words, they care what people think of them, probably too much. It's this that distinguishes them from psychopaths who don't care what anyone thinks of them and have no ties whatsoever to anyone external to themselves. For example, a psychopath wouldn't care if their partner was injured, whereas a narcissist probably would.

When it comes to dating, narcissists want the best - in their eyes. They'll go for what they believe is the ultimate person to date and that usually means someone very attractive that they can manipulate and treat as their trophy piece. But they will always insist on and remain superior. Dating companions and partners tend to be people they can easily take advantage of and eventually take control of. But the process is usually gradual and subtle because they don't want to make it obvious. They're smart people with complex thought processes, and they can make decisions very quickly. They can spend a lot of time scheming things in their heads to ensure a situation they're likely to be in will always work to their advantage.

Narcissistic people generally aren't aware of their personality traits. Psychologists define narcissistic behaviour as a personality disorder, and most people with the condition would probably not even realise anything was different about them. If they can still function and survive amongst the general population, and they actually do so very well, then there isn't really anything wrong.

But dating a narcissist can cause a lot of problems, mainly because they're so good at manipulation that they'll have you like putty in their hands before you're even remotely aware of their 'disorder'. They'll impress you to start with. Their stories are engaging and interesting, bordering unbelievable sometimes. They'll tell you how well they're doing, how successful they are. They'll sell themselves really well until you buy into them. You can think of them like a really pushy salesperson who just won't give in until you pay up. Before you know it, you'll be accompanying them to the venue of their choice, having lavish dinners and often gaining an impressive social life. But don't be fooled by all this. To them, you're just a disposable possession of theirs with no ties or attachments to anything of value or importance. They brought you into this world and can easily send you right back where you came from if things don't work out.

How can you spot if your date is a narcissist?

  1. Do they come across as thinking they are more important than they really are?
  2. Do they crave constant, if not excessive, admiration as if they are a superior person, valued more than you?
  3. Does their conversation often involve them talking about things they've achieved and won or things they can do that others can't?
  4. Do they expect you always to look perfect wherever you go and wherever you are?
  5. Do they always want everything to be perfect and expect the best from anything they do or anything they have?
  6. Do they often belittle you, look down on you as if you were inferior to them?
  7. Can you spot them taking advantage of others frequently?
  8. Do they rarely, or never empathise with the feelings of others, or if they do, do those empathetic responses seem false?
  9. Are they usually loud and boastful, perhaps you or others might find them arrogant?

If you answer 'yes' to most of the questions above, then there's a good chance your date is a narcissist, and you should really think hard about whether or not you're prepared to handle such a complicated relationship.

Are narcissists that bad?

Because they have little empathy for others, that's something you should be concerned about. Narcissists can make excellent partners if you're able to understand how they operate. They are usually successful people and can introduce a great deal of success and fulfilment into your life, but you need to be cautious of their lack of empathy. If you're looking for someone loving that you open your heart too, a narcissist probably isn't the right partner for you. But if you want someone who can support you financially and can introduce you into a world of seeming superiority, then you might just find some enjoyment dating one. Always be on your guard though because things can turn nasty if they don't get what they want. You need to be emotionally strong enough to handle it.

So the next time you're searching on Flirthut for your partner, make sure you look out for any signs before you get too heavily attached to someone. And remember that Flirthut has hundreds of thousands of members around the world all waiting to meet that special someone. If you're not already a member, join us today for free.

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