Help using Flirthut

Making your online dating experience better

How do I use Flirthut?

Flirthut is really simple to use! First, find someone you're interested in by using our search feature, and then get in touch with them. If they accept your contact request, you can start exchanging messages. If you prefer not to receive messages from a particular member, you can add them to your ignore list. Premium members have extra features like making their profile invisible to the public and choosing who can view it.

Once you've signed in, make sure your profile is complete. Head to your profile home page through the Account dropdown menu. From there, you can access and update your profile. You'll also need to upload at least one profile photo, which must be approved before you can contact anyone.

Additionally, our 'Dating Xtras' feature offers cool options like video profile links, extended photo galleries, member-submitted erotic stories, and an e-shop. You can find these features by clicking the 'Xtras' option in the main menu.

How do I contact someone?

To contact another member on Flirthut, you need to be a registered member. Visit their profile page and click on the 'Message member' option (or the envelope icon) to get started. If you haven't spoken with them before, you'll need to send an 'icebreaker' contact request.

Premium members can craft their own custom icebreakers, while standard members can select one from a dropdown list. If the other person accepts your icebreaker, you'll be able to chat with them freely. However, if your icebreaker is declined, you'll have to wait 30 days before sending another one.

How do I search for a match?

Finding a match on Flirthut is straightforward. Head to the search option from the main menu and choose your preferred search type. Premium members get full access to advanced search features, while standard members have limited access to only the Quick member search. Simply select the relevant filters and start searching! If you're not getting results, try expanding your search criteria.

One unique feature of Flirthut is the ability to search any location worldwide. To change your search location, go to the account menu and select My location. You can update this as often as needed, but remember, it affects how others find you.

How do I use the advanced search?

The advanced search allows premium members to refine their search criteria. Simply select the relevant filters and start searching!

How to I use the username search?

The username search allows premium members to find a specific member by profile name or to search for a group of members that share a similar username. Simply select the relevant filters and start searching!

What is the keyword search?

The keyword search allows premium members to search through other members profiles for similar keyword matches. This means you can find other members that might have similar interests, outlook or expectations to yourself. Simply select whether you'd like to search Status's only or Profile descriptions, and enter your keyword or phrase.

Your safety online

Please ensure you have read our Dating Tips to make the most of your online dating experience. Like anything online, it's important to stay safe by being mindful of the information you share with others. Avoid sharing personal details such as your home address, financial information, or anything that could be used to identify you too soon. While we provide a free platform for you to connect with others, we cannot guarantee the authenticity of every member, so use caution when communicating and trust your instincts if something doesn't feel right. Stay safe and enjoy your experience!