Over 30's dating chat...

Over 30's singles forum

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Over 30 and Nerdy...

Hi, I'm Arthur and I'm 39! I am at a place in my life where I want to date again and things are great for me. I feel I am level headed, hard-working, confident (not arrogant), and ambitious. I stream on Twitch and work a full-time job! Most of the time I feel great and it doesn't take me much to get out of a funk, because, hey, we all get like that. I'm just an optimist. My problem is I... more →

Posted: 2020-03-28 13:33:16

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  Take your time...

Take your time - Don't rush, as the saying goes, out of the pot into the fire. Some people rush into relationships for the wrong reasons. They've barely gotten out of one and jump right back into another before they have healed. What happens is they end up carrying a lot of emotional baggage with them. Is it fair? Is it right? No, it ain't especially - not to the other party. Some think with their... more →

Posted: 2020-03-09 07:02:35

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Married women, Why?...

I'm 31, I have a thing for older married women. Normally they understand I'm not looking for a relationship, just some fun whether a one or reoccurring but at no point a relationship. Recently, a woman I'd been seeing for a while said she was leaving her husband and family because she was in love and wanted to start to get serious. I very clearly told her that wasn't our agreement and she should ... more →

Posted: 2018-11-25 23:58:03

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Spending Christmas Alone Again...

Christmas is always a difficult time for me. I've been single now for five years and it always hits home when it's a holiday. It's not that I don't want to meet someone, rather I seem to mess up everytime I do. I've only had a few relationships in my time and I don't ever feel confident when I'm with a woman. I thought I'd join Flirthut but having a look at the people on here, I'm not sure I'd mee... more →

Posted: 2017-12-18 23:36:57

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  Sex urge...

Does the sex urge of women peak at 30's?... more →

Posted: 2015-05-09 08:20:38

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Multiple Dating Etiquette...

I am newly single and 42 and found that dating sites are pretty awesome! But the problem is, although some might think it's a good problem to have, is that I have lots of interest and I don't know what the etiquette is for multiple dating, as I have always had long term relationships. Do I tell them I'm seeing other men too or do I hide it? What if they are not seeing anybody else. It's all so com... more →

Posted: 2013-11-26 08:18:37

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Tired of 20 something girls...

So now being in my 40's, I am finding it more and more difficult to find that special someone close to my age that likes to spend time doing similar things. It seems that i always end up with girls in their mid 20's, immature and with a TON of issues. I like to think of myself as a nice, good looking guy. I take great care of my body, and work hard at staying healthy, to find someone like me in... more →

Posted: 2012-11-11 16:22:20

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Newly dating again after 20 years...

A year ago my husband and I divorced. We have three children together who I have custody of and at 43 getting back into the dating game is a bit daunting. I don't even know where to start. I haven't been single for 20 years so things are very different to '91 and before. So how do you meet someone these days?... more →

Posted: 2012-10-08 22:22:17

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