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  How do I keep getting up in the morning?...

How do I keep getting up in the morning? My partner and I split up 2 months ago, after 7 years together. Devastated doesn't even come close. I can't get out of bed, I can't sleep when I'm there, I cry constantly. If I make it to work I snap at everyone all day, then burst into tears. I know my friends are avoiding me because they think I should just 'get over it' but I can't I'm a mess. I've lost ... more →

Posted: 2020-06-27 06:11:34

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  Starting over...

Absolutely lost in what to do when starting over meeting a new woman. I think we all get complacent in our relationships and forget what's important and how to conduct ourselves! I do genuinely feel i have a lot to offer a partner but how do i get there in the first place? I do find it incredibly hard to meet new people and be myself and recently find i distrust people for no real reason. So what ... more →

Posted: 2020-05-11 10:44:39

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  Is it possible?...

Has the sun set over the man beyond the realm of his twenties who is yet to find himself in a meaningful relationship that fulfills his every desire with such a woman that could easily level him with her eyes? Has he neglected the most prosperous part of his life?. Can what builds an everlasting love, still be achieved against the odds? What does it take to refrain from one's own personal agenda a... more →

Posted: 2020-05-09 18:10:41

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  Urge of Men Over 30...

I want to know from older men, 30 if your s*xual urges are the same as when you were maybe 19 or 20? Tell us please what you think. S*xual desire, or urge, is a motivational state and an interest in "s*xual objects or activities, or as a wish, or drive to seek out s*xual activities" I will be 68 in a couple months. Yes, my age number is older; but I am not old. My urges are strong I believe;... more →

Posted: 2020-04-15 13:16:43

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Over 30 and Nerdy...

Hi, I'm Arthur and I'm 39! I am at a place in my life where I want to date again and things are great for me. I feel I am level headed, hard-working, confident (not arrogant), and ambitious. I stream on Twitch and work a full-time job! Most of the time I feel great and it doesn't take me much to get out of a funk, because, hey, we all get like that. I'm just an optimist. My problem is I... more →

Posted: 2020-03-28 13:33:16

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  Take your time...

Take your time - Don't rush, as the saying goes, out of the pot into the fire. Some people rush into relationships for the wrong reasons. They've barely gotten out of one and jump right back into another before they have healed. What happens is they end up carrying a lot of emotional baggage with them. Is it fair? Is it right? No, it ain't especially - not to the other party. Some think with their... more →

Posted: 2020-03-09 07:02:35

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Married women, Why?...

I'm 31, I have a thing for older married women. Normally they understand I'm not looking for a relationship, just some fun whether a one or reoccurring but at no point a relationship. Recently, a woman I'd been seeing for a while said she was leaving her husband and family because she was in love and wanted to start to get serious. I very clearly told her that wasn't our agreement and she should ... more →

Posted: 2018-11-25 23:58:03

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Spending Christmas Alone Again...

Christmas is always a difficult time for me. I've been single now for five years and it always hits home when it's a holiday. It's not that I don't want to meet someone, rather I seem to mess up everytime I do. I've only had a few relationships in my time and I don't ever feel confident when I'm with a woman. I thought I'd join Flirthut but having a look at the people on here, I'm not sure I'd mee... more →

Posted: 2017-12-18 23:36:57

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  Sex urge...

Does the sex urge of women peak at 30's?... more →

Posted: 2015-05-09 08:20:38

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Multiple Dating Etiquette...

I am newly single and 42 and found that dating sites are pretty awesome! But the problem is, although some might think it's a good problem to have, is that I have lots of interest and I don't know what the etiquette is for multiple dating, as I have always had long term relationships. Do I tell them I'm seeing other men too or do I hide it? What if they are not seeing anybody else. It's all so com... more →

Posted: 2013-11-26 08:18:37

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