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How long do you wait

I’ve been dating a guys for about 5 weeks. We text or talk daily, go to dinner or meet at one of our places once or twice a week. The chemistry is amazing. The sex is amazing and we get along very well all around. We haven’t found any topics we don’t agree on. He has two children and I have one. We ... read more →

Posted by: Undisclosed
United States
Posted Nov 06, 2017 - 20795 views

Real men

Guys, I'm an attractive, athletic, 38 year old female whose young at heart and wanting to find a real connection now. I'm sweet and shy but every time I get curious and begin looking, all I see and experience are perverts. Are there any really men left that aren't just looking for a hookup? I hate d... read more →

Posted by: Lj
United States
Posted Oct 25, 2017 - 31819 views

Am I the only one?

I'm 19 and I'm a black girl. I've dated only black guys but I've decided to try dating other races. I think my reason for dating black guys is because they're the only ones that approach you. From my experience in real life and on dating sites, white guys just view and match with you but even if you... read more →

Posted by: Beyourself
Canada, Ottawa
Posted Jul 29, 2017 - 28008 views

I can't figure him out

I met this guy. We were talking, texting, snap chatting nonstop for over 2 weeks. Treated me like a girlfriend, talking about future dates and meeting the parents. Then one day he started a new job and everything almost stopped. I asked him what was up and he said he didn’t want a relationship. I do... read more →

Posted by: Undisclosed
Location unknown
Posted Feb 26, 2017 - 39825 views

Single

I have been single for 4 years. I live in a small town. I do go out to the movies but not bars or clubs. I am 28 years old, black, single mom, and being lonely can be frustrating at times. I consider myself an attractive woman just not a size 10. I have been on a few dates but nothing serious. I hav... read more →

Posted by: Undisclosed
United States
Posted Jan 19, 2017 - 41281 views

Getting him to shave there

Hi there! I have a kind of uncomfortable question, but I really need to ask this. How would you like your girl to communicate to you that she would like you to shave there? I've dating someone for like 5 months and I really enjoy everything we do, but sometimes he doesn't shave before having sex a... read more →

Posted by: Mariale
Colombia
Posted Jan 03, 2017 - 39903 views

Does true love exist?

I loved him with everything to an extent that I literally worship him. And all he could do in paying back was to impregnate my friend. Does true love really exist? Is it a crime that i so much love him? Because right now, I am miserable.... read more →

Posted by: Undisclosed
Location unknown
Posted Jan 03, 2017 - 40931 views

I seem to never attract guys

I am 21, never had a boyfriend, but I never go to bars or clubs. Guys never approach me, ask me out, and they almost never hit on me when I go to coffee shops, when I do grocery shopping, or to the gym. I am in shape (I am 5'6 and weigh 125 pounds) and I try to wear makeup sometimes just to look goo... read more →

Posted by: Undisclosed
United States
Posted Oct 08, 2016 - 31130 views

**Oral S*x**

I'm in a relationship with a man who will not perform oral sex on me, he has only twice in 13 months but that's all... I'm completely waxed and very clean so I don't understand what the issue is. Is this common? can you please shed some light on this?... read more →

Posted by: Carmen
Australia
Posted Sep 24, 2016 - 41174 views