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Love or lust?

Love or lust?

I've been dating a guy I met online for a good few weeks now and we are very intimate together. We'll often spend all our time in bed having fun. But here's the problem... I don't think we have a lot in common. We get on really well but I'm a bit worried that our relationship is just based purely on... read more →

Why men are not attracted to me

Why men are not attracted to me

I am 40, in great shape and full of energy, but it seems that men are not attracted to me. It's been four years of no dates and no s*x. I love to travel, go to movies, festivals, outings, concerts, museums, and lots of fun stuff. I have a successful professional career, good health and I am very pas... read more →

Real men

Real men

Can a girl ever find true love and not get heart broken? Is there really true men out there? Can true love always last forever?... read more →

Am I too nice to guys I like?

Am I too nice to guys I like?

I have tried online dating. I try to be friendly, nice and am really straight forward. Like I guess females aren't supposed to be like that? Every time I'm completely straightforward telling a guy I like him straight up, I find him attractive, I tell him he's beautiful. 1st guy I talked to I tried t... read more →

My friends are wasting their money on internet brides

My friends are wasting their money on internet brides

A lot of my friends are really into these foreign women who are seeking men for marriage. I think this one’s an audacity and an act of desperation. With their age, they are too old to play around with these girls. I don’t know if they’re doing this to get married or to just get laid by a foreign wom... read more →

Need real advice

Need real advice

Hi I need men's advice. I've been with my man for almost 10 years. We have 3 kids together. I recently found out he almost cheated on me and about a week after he confessed to me I found out he paid for sex from someone else (scared to say but a transgender). When I found out about it he automatical... read more →

My date didn’t turn up but wants to meet me again

My date didn’t turn up but wants to meet me again

I was supposed to meet a guy the other day for a date. We have been chatting online through another free dating site - not Flirthut – and spent about a week texting each other on WhatsApp. So we organized a date in a bar last weekend but he didn’t turn up. I waited at the bar on my own for about 20 ... read more →

How long do you wait

How long do you wait

I’ve been dating a guys for about 5 weeks. We text or talk daily, go to dinner or meet at one of our places once or twice a week. The chemistry is amazing. The sex is amazing and we get along very well all around. We haven’t found any topics we don’t agree on. He has two children and I have one. We ... read more →

Real men

Real men

Guys, I'm an attractive, athletic, 38 year old female whose young at heart and wanting to find a real connection now. I'm sweet and shy but every time I get curious and begin looking, all I see and experience are perverts. Are there any really men left that aren't just looking for a hookup? I hate d... read more →

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