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Does this guy still like me?

Last year I met a guy who I felt I had a great connection with and he admitted he really liked me. We were both living in the same city at the time, so it was easy to see him. Unfortunately, after a few dates, I had to move home for unforeseen reasons, and we decided that we could not do a long-dist... read more →

Posted by: Mia
Location unknown
Posted Mar 01, 2020 - 3413 views

Playing me, rejecting or just low interest?

I've been hanging out with this girl but I don't know her mindset yet. I asked her to hang tomorrow and she said she has an event thing tomorrow but has extra days free this week so she will "hit me up." Usually the "I'll call you" is a lack of interest but the way she said it has me second guessing... read more →

Posted by: Drivenfuture
United States, Denton
Posted Oct 22, 2019 - 3813 views

Love or lust?

I've been dating a guy I met online for a good few weeks now and we are very intimate together. We'll often spend all our time in bed having fun. But here's the problem... I don't think we have a lot in common. We get on really well but I'm a bit worried that our relationship is just based purely on... read more →

Posted by: Undisclosed
Location unknown
Posted Sep 25, 2019 - 4100 views

Why men are not attracted to me

I am 40, in great shape and full of energy, but it seems that men are not attracted to me. It's been four years of no dates and no s*x. I love to travel, go to movies, festivals, outings, concerts, museums, and lots of fun stuff. I have a successful professional career, good health and I am very pas... read more →

Posted by: Lilliam
Location unknown
Posted Jul 23, 2019 - 4981 views

Real men

Can a girl ever find true love and not get heart broken? Is there really true men out there? Can true love always last forever?... read more →

Posted by: Laraphill
United States, Cambridge
Posted Jan 01, 2019 - 4829 views

Am I too nice to guys I like?

I have tried online dating. I try to be friendly, nice and am really straight forward. Like I guess females aren't supposed to be like that? Every time I'm completely straightforward telling a guy I like him straight up, I find him attractive, I tell him he's beautiful. 1st guy I talked to I tried t... read more →

Posted by: Undisclosed
Location unknown
Posted Nov 07, 2018 - 9569 views

My friends are wasting their money on internet brides

A lot of my friends are really into these foreign women who are seeking men for marriage. I think this one’s an audacity and an act of desperation. With their age, they are too old to play around with these girls. I don’t know if they’re doing this to get married or to just get laid by a foreign wom... read more →

Posted by: smithsmitten30
United States, Philadelphia
Posted Jun 22, 2018 - 17296 views

Need real advice

Hi I need men's advice. I've been with my man for almost 10 years. We have 3 kids together. I recently found out he almost cheated on me and about a week after he confessed to me I found out he paid for sex from someone else (scared to say but a transgender). When I found out about it he automatical... read more →

Posted by: HurtWife
Location unknown
Posted Jan 30, 2018 - 13705 views

My date didn’t turn up but wants to meet me again

I was supposed to meet a guy the other day for a date. We have been chatting online through another free dating site - not Flirthut – and spent about a week texting each other on WhatsApp. So we organized a date in a bar last weekend but he didn’t turn up. I waited at the bar on my own for about 20 ... read more →

Posted by: Nicola
United States
Posted Jan 15, 2018 - 21328 views