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1. Communication is the most important in a relationship. Some people say it is the key. Without communication, everything falls apart. It matters in a friendship, intimate relationship, business, or work relationship. The lack of communication sends the message of not being interested anymore, or the willingness of breaking up, without hurting the feelings of the other one. 2. Honesty is impor... more →

Posted: 2020-06-25 10:56:25

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Single man doubts...

What kind of erotic videos can you watch with a girl? I don't want her to get offended, but I love watching s*x videos to get excited. Do you have any recommendations? I never know how girls feel about watching erotica together and I'm always scared of bringing this topic up. What's your experience? I know that almost all men watch these videos when they're alone/single, but there aren't many disc... more →

Posted: 2020-03-30 08:05:13

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Does this guy still like me?...

Last year I met a guy who I felt I had a great connection with and he admitted he really liked me. We were both living in the same city at the time, so it was easy to see him. Unfortunately, after a few dates, I had to move home for unforeseen reasons, and we decided that we could not do a long-distance relationship. Six months passed before I contacted him again to stay in touch as I was movin... more →

Posted: 2020-03-01 16:23:14

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  Playing me, rejecting or just low interest?...

I've been hanging out with this girl but I don't know her mindset yet. I asked her to hang tomorrow and she said she has an event thing tomorrow but has extra days free this week so she will "hit me up." Usually the "I'll call you" is a lack of interest but the way she said it has me second guessing. We were being playful and flirty right before so I honestly don't know if she will or not.... more →

Posted: 2019-10-22 02:41:11

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Love or lust?...

I've been dating a guy I met online for a good few weeks now and we are very intimate together. We'll often spend all our time in bed having fun. But here's the problem... I don't think we have a lot in common. We get on really well but I'm a bit worried that our relationship is just based purely on lust. The other day, I was telling a friend of mine about my new partner and they asked me a few qu... more →

Posted: 2019-09-25 12:32:28

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Why men are not attracted to me...

I am 40, in great shape and full of energy, but it seems that men are not attracted to me. It's been four years of no dates and no s*x. I love to travel, go to movies, festivals, outings, concerts, museums, and lots of fun stuff. I have a successful professional career, good health and I am very passionate about many issues like the environment and social justice movements. I tried online dating a... more →

Posted: 2019-07-23 02:03:39

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  Real men...

Can a girl ever find true love and not get heart broken? Is there really true men out there? Can true love always last forever?... more →

Posted: 2019-01-01 11:13:17

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Am I too nice to guys I like?...

I have tried online dating. I try to be friendly, nice and am really straight forward. Like I guess females aren't supposed to be like that? Every time I'm completely straightforward telling a guy I like him straight up, I find him attractive, I tell him he's beautiful. 1st guy I talked to I tried to let in every way possible that I was interested in him. We added each other on Facebook and I look... more →

Posted: 2018-11-07 22:35:03

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  My friends are wasting their money on internet brides...

A lot of my friends are really into these foreign women who are seeking men for marriage. I think this one’s an audacity and an act of desperation. With their age, they are too old to play around with these girls. I don’t know if they’re doing this to get married or to just get laid by a foreign woman. Should I just sit around and watch them waste their money on these women? Or shall I change my m... more →

Posted: 2018-06-22 09:42:59

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Need real advice...

Hi I need men's advice. I've been with my man for almost 10 years. We have 3 kids together. I recently found out he almost cheated on me and about a week after he confessed to me I found out he paid for sex from someone else (scared to say but a transgender). When I found out about it he automatically flipped it to being my fault that I found out. Question is why do men cheat honestly and what do ... more →

Posted: 2018-01-30 21:55:39

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