I had no idea what that even meant until recently and it was her that pointed it out to me. We’ve been together for years now and I love her dearly but over the last year or so, she’s developed a fetish which involves me having sexual relationships with other women under her consent or supervision. She gets very turned on by the thought of me sleeping with another woman. It first started out as fantasy talk, but has progressed to real life. I’m not complaining. I guess this is most men’s dream come true, but the reason I’m on here is to find out if anyone else has a similar relationship with their partners and if so, what is their experience? To date, I have met several women some of who I have slept with or had some form of sexual encounter with and I never thought I’d enjoy it, but I do. The first couple of sexual encounters were emotionally difficult for both of us but I was actively encouraged to go through with them by my partner. Any issues aren’t between me and my partner but more between the numerous women that I am seeing. I essentially have to lie to them most of the time as I don’t think many women would understand or want to be in that situation. It then gets very difficult to maintain a web of lies. I also sometimes wonder what our family would think if they found out as we’re both very prim and proper in the real world. I hope there are other couples out there like us who can reassure us both that what we regard as fun and sexually rewarding isn’t just isolated to us and a small handful of people around the world.
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Posted: 2014-07-28 21:30:47
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Comment/reply from: , Location, Undisclosed
Posted: 2014-07-29 15:03:18
Are you serious dude? You gotta be the luckiest man alive. I would love for my girl to let me do that but I just gotta look at another girl and she goes mad. Credit to you.
Comment/reply from: bendurhamizm, Australia, Barton
Posted: 2016-07-06 07:48:43
I don’t know if I’m going to be happy or sad for you. That’s radical, beyond normal, and only happens on porn! Apparently with your situation it also happens in real life! If i was in your shoe and there’s no problem with the situation aside from me being a little bit worried about it, I suggest I’d keep it up until four months and see what will transpire out of it. Damn! That is one in a million! I’d prep myself though to keep up with the two girls. I’ll try sex enhancement pills. I’ll practice more on my oral game. I’ll do whatever it takes to keep up with them. Then after 3 to 4 months I’ll decide if I’m going to continue it or not. For the meantime just enjoy. A lot of guys are fantasizing to be in your shoe. Enjoy it and just be safe.
Comment/reply from: tyragiana, United States, Greensboro
Posted: 2016-09-08 08:19:08
I believe that if you and your partner have a healthy relationship then it shouldn't matter what anyone else thinks about the situation. If both of you enjoy it then power to the both of you on finding someone who you can express that with. The only issue would be the numerous other females who are in the situation. Instead of lying about the situation, find other females who are also into what you guys are into. I have heard that some women will participate in being watched and they like it.
Comment/reply from: Bindy, Location, Undisclosed
Posted: 2017-02-28 22:24:57
I am a wife of 5 years no interest in women at all but I have the fantasy to see my husband with another woman ...why is that?
Comment/reply from: , Location, Undisclosed
Posted: 2017-06-05 22:46:08
I'm very concerned for you. I had a similar life (was dom boyfriend to cuckquean who loved helping me dom other hot women). Ultimately, these scenarios don't work out. And I think your citing the lying (which is really wrong and bad, people will get hurt), the 'double life' part ... means that you don't embrace where you are. Further, I got the idea your GF Is selfish and domineering. That's not going to help, either. I'm very pro-polyamory, and I know the pleasure of having a good little slut clean the taste of the other good little slut off of one's cock, but in the context of long term and complex relationships, you don't sound settled at all.
Comment/reply from: Anne, United Kingdom,
Posted: 2018-12-20 08:09:39
We are the same as what you said. I am the cuck queen, and we have a few woman my husband sleeps with. It is our way of life, we love it, although my husband in the early days was struggling with the idea as he said its unfaithful, but i don't think it is, not with me loving the concept and reality of it. We in our private life are the same, prim and proper and business people. We have to have discreet as its our ultimate fear we got found out. Although in the same voice, this is our life and we don't hurt anyone by doing what we are doing. Plus the bonus of it, is I have some great female friends, we just have something in common, we sleep with the same man, but whom I love dearly xx
Comment/reply from: Joseph, Location, Undisclosed
Posted: 2019-07-14 20:25:36
Me and my partner have the same setup. It started as a fantasy thing but has now gone beyond that and turned into just the normal routine. Like you say, it's not an issue with each other but more with the people you sleep with. You're not alone though. There are others out there like you (me!). I really love what I do and it's the only way I can get enough se*xual satisfaction. It can be hard though at times and I often find myself feeling very guilty for the women that don't know I'm technically cheating on them. I've had times where I haven't been able to perform because the guilt has been so strong but I tell myself that as long as me and my normal partner know the truth, it's acceptable and fine. Let me know how you're getting on!
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