My partner of 3 years has cheated on me. What should I do?

Posted by Sadandlonely
- Jun 27, 2013 @09:18

My boyfriend went to a party on Saturday night and when I called, a girl answered the phone. I heard my boyfriend shouting in the background to put the phone down. I've never cheated on him and I never would, but we don't see each other all the time as we live about 100 miles apart. I love him so much but he's broken the trust that we had. He has apologised and said it was a first time and it will never happen again. I am confused and I don't know what to do, I need advice and I hate feeling like this.

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AndreaRiley143
Australia, Sydney
- Posted Feb 05, 2018 @23:43
I cannot of course advise you. I do hope however, Men have always followed the urges placed inside them by Nature and they always will. So if he did that to you once he will never hesitate to do it again thinking that you will still forgive him.
MART4444
United States, City unknown
- Posted Nov 29, 2019 @01:14
dump him...no loyalty and no trust
an ex Flirthut member
United States, Ennis
- Posted Mar 13, 2025 @21:43
That is something that you will have to figure out for your self. He went to a party and some woman picked up his phone. Did he say that he had sex with her or did he just say that it will never happen again? There is two different things going on there. As for me I don't do long distance relationships and I never leave my phone where someone else can pick it up I have it on silent mode or turned off or left in the car. My sister always gripes at me for not answering her call for a few days and I keep telling her that phone is a big problem I can't stand them ringing all the time.

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