Urge of Men Over 30

I want to know from older men, 30 if your s*xual urges are the same as when you were maybe 19 or 20? Tell us please what you think.

S*xual desire, or urge, is a motivational state and an interest in "s*xual objects or activities, or as a wish, or drive to seek out s*xual activities"

I will be 68 in a couple months. Yes, my age number is older; but I am not old. My urges are strong I believe; If I place my eyes on a beautiful younger woman I still get strong urges. Might I have the same physical lasting ability now as when I did when I was say in my 20's? Not a chance; I wish!

I might be old but you will not find me in a senior center. I do gym work and swim rather than play bingo or checkers all day. I try to stay fit which I believe it helps with my urges and stamina. This might not be a scientific opinion but it works for me. That is, I have a better opinion and view of myself. I have not given up, grown old mentally. I get out and live and yes, enjoy what's out there.

It is understandable that women do consider me an old grandpa type and would never think of dating me, not a chance. I mean really, why would the ones much young than I even think about it. That does not mean I do not find older women of all ages gorgeous, I do. I just see the such life and excitement in women younger than I.

My "Best Friend" is 35 and we have been "Friends" for 10 years now. I want to keep it that way. Maybe it is her that drives me. She picks out my clothes, my earring studs, my tattoos, and gets on me when I start getting the gut. Yes, people stare at us; they are just jealous I think; we usually laugh about it. Older men stare, their wives slap them on the head and give them "That" deadly look.

Bottom line; I will keep my urges and they are still strong.

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Posted by member: Trek
From: United States, Oakland
Posted: 2020-04-15 13:16:43

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Comment/reply from: SikSimon, United States, Holiday
Posted: 2020-08-25 02:30:16

I wanna party every day and I'm 35

Comment/reply from: michael2042, United Kingdom, Birmingham
Posted: 2020-12-18 07:29:03

I'm 84 and am surprised to still be getting positive responses from young females. You sound fit and well, so I would simply 'Allow' females to choose you if they wish. It is the female who does the choosing in my experience and quite rightly too!

Comment/reply from: olderwomendate, United States, Belmont
Posted: 2021-08-09 06:47:33

May be in some date site you can find more sexy ladies.

Comment/reply from: olderwomendate, United States, Belmont
Posted: 2021-08-09 06:48:36

Maybe you can sign some date site.

Comment/reply from: Ritababy, Australia, Alexandria
Posted: 2023-02-24 09:31:17

I need a man who can take me on through the whole night

Comment/reply from: gamerjim87, United States, Huntington
Posted: 2023-04-07 04:48:32

I'm 36, just left a s*xless 12yr relationship. I'm way more s*xually available now. And more knowledgeable which helps. I don't think my drive will ever die

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