My view of women's online dating

My own miserable online dating experience:

Used half a dozen websites covering a period of about 2 years.

I sent about 200 messages to different women, got only one date out of it.

Women are stuck up online, they have all the power. They wait for men to email them, and they pick and choose who to email back. They just don't give us guys a chance, they need to be more open and to give a guy a 15min coffee date.

What's the worst that is going to happen? Maybe a girl heard a story about a guy who stalked a girl after one date or something.

The truth is – women have a very negative attitude with online dating, and they choose to reject decent guys like me all the time, all the time all the time. Ridiculous.

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Posted by member: Chess16584651
From: United States, Central Bridge
Posted: 2016-08-29 20:47:34

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Comment/reply from: Linda broadbent, United Kingdom,
Posted: 2016-09-14 21:57:25

Hi, I am sorry to hear of your experience of online dating. I can relate to all you say as my experience has also been dire. I had 4 try to scam me. Some just don't bother to reply. I have left these sites because my separation after 26 years married has left me feeling vulnerable. I am caught between extreme loneliness and a realisation that I need to do something - but what? I wish you every success and if you want to chat about it, email me at [EMAIL REMOVED BY ADMINISTRATOR FOR PRIVACY]

Comment/reply from: HealthNut555, United States, Leesburg
Posted: 2017-09-01 07:46:51

Having such a negative view won't help things, and neither will stereotyping women. Just a word of advice, if you really want to meet someone, treat us as individuals, and be positive. Most messages will not be returned and most dates will not lead to a relationship. That's why most people do not practice polygamy. You are only looking for that one. Trust me, it's just as bad for us girls. At least you don't get random dick pics.

Comment/reply from: Dogwood34, United States, Cleveland
Posted: 2020-02-20 00:54:45

I think so many guys who just want to get in their pants, say anything that they want to here to get them to trust them and after they score they're on to the next woman. I am not the first guy to contact this woman, there were many before me so there already not trusting, and have their guard up when I get to them. It is too bad so many jerks ruin it for the good guys like us, that's why we finish last.

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